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Erika's avatar

I totally agree about social media, is a fake image of what really is happening behind those beautiful pictures. Your story made me think about mine, I grew up in a good family, my parents were very good parents my extended family also is a good family we are all very close and we love to hang out together, and then I married to a person that has a very broken family, with all kinds of disfunctional that I could even imagine existed in life and the worst is that I left my family of origin and my country to come to this, but as always and I learned this through all my years in building a relationship with God that his plan was for me to be here, to learn and build what I couldn’t have done it in my country, and to show this man that he can be related to a big family and be loved

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Adrienne's avatar

I completely understand the reason for leaving social media. Frankly, it can be toxic. I have an Instagram account, but mostly to follow my daughter’s art page. Otherwise it includes a lot of Charles Spurgeon quotes and similar biblical encouragement. :) My Facebook account is similar; I post rarely simply because I don’t feel comfortable with posting just to show off. But I do still follow it, partly because my church family posts announcements there, partly because I follow a couple of local weather pages and devotionals, and partly because there are times my friends - who I know personally - share needs and concerns there that I wouldn’t otherwise hear about. It becomes an extension of the community that already exists.

I know that’s not the norm, of course. I’ve seen the aspects of social media designed to inflame feelings of “not enough” or “better than.” I’ve seen (and removed) the posts encouraging hatred and distrust. But I always appreciate those subverting the status quo by injecting a little reality into the situation. It can strengthen me as I try to live out my walk with God in integrity. To me, that’s a countercultural social media.

Not that everyone has either to do either one, ditch or transform. I figure we follow the Spirit’s lead on what is best in these situations, so it’s not up to me to try to be prescriptive. It’s just something I continue to mull over. I am glad, however, I stumbled across your work (through reading P31 online) and found a sister who seems to be of like mind. Thank you for sharing your heart.

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